Child Care Options: , Downsides Benefits & Costs

For most of us, child care is part of being a parent these days. Everyone needs another set of hands sometimes, even if only for the occasional sanity-saving evening out with friends. And single parents need a pinch hitter more than anyone. But child care costs, especially for the full-time variety so many working moms need, can bring on serious sticker shock. Taking careful stock of your options and weighing them against your needs will help you make the most cost-effective decision that’s still right for your child. And it’s a good idea to start your research sooner rather than later: If you need to make child care arrangements on short notice, you may make a hasty decision that isn’t the best one for your little one or for you. Here’s a primer to the various types and costs of child care, along with resources for more information.

Day care center

What it is: A state-licensed facility where parents drop children off, usually for a full day. These are often large centers that group children by age in classrooms, similar to a school.
Pros: Day care is a great choice if you have a job with little flexibility in hours or the ability to work from home. Day care centers offer a structured day for your child, with time for outdoor play, learning, meals and naps. Socialization is a big plus. Most “teachers,” as caregivers in day care centers are often referred to, are either working on or have completed a degree in early childhood education or a similar field. The top day care centers double as preschools when kids get to age 2 or 2.5, with a formal curriculum and progress reports.
Cons: If your child needs one-on-one attention to thrive, this may not be the best choice — although a group environment works well for many kids. If you think you’d have a hard time hearing your nearly-potty-trained child had an accident, or that the organic crackers you carefully packed for his snack somehow never found their way out of his little backpack, this may not be the route for you. Also, since rates are per child, the cost can be prohibitive with two (or more) children.